It's nothing to do with the valve, it's just the car warming up. Once mine's up to temperature I have to work REALLY hard to get a pop on upshifts, whereas if I go for it straight away while it's still cold it'll pop basically every time.
Just to note that running hard when cold is never really a good idea, especially on cars that are closer to tolerances like ours, in your daily runabout crapbox it doesn't really matter because they're designed and built with non-car people in mind, whereas performance-oriented models are a bit more sensitive to that sort of thing.